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Grandpa Mellenbruch's Letter to his Children
1897
My Dear Children,
I feel that my strength is failing and my days on earth shall soon
be numbered. I have no dread of the future, for I fully trust in my Savior and
my God. He has helped me through all my trials and troubles and He will be your
refuge too, forsake Him not.
I cannot leave you each a fortune in dollars and cents but my
tenderest love reaches out to you in prayerful solicitude for your temporal and
eternal welfare. If you love me, and revere my memory, then give heed to the
following earnest advice:
1. Love one another. Remember the love that your father and
mother had for each of you.
2. Be forgiving, one toward another. Remember you are all human;
bear with each other's shortcomings, do not scold one that errs, but rather
plead, yes, go to the erring and plead. Do not whet a silent anger. It saps
the fountain of life.
3. Be of a liberal mind. When a misunderstanding occurs, be
always willing to give way or meet the other more than halfway.
4. Beware of things new and untried. You cannot afford to
experiment thus. To try new experiments often brings failure, discouragement
and unhappiness. So, as a rule, hold to the tired and proven in business
methods, as well as in your friendships. Be as sure as you possibly can be that
you are in the right, then steadily and calmly go ahead.
5. Forsake not our dear church. Let your anxious care extend to
our spiritual children that are there born into Christs Kingdom. Let no
mistaken endearments outside or ill felling inside, tempt you to grow cold in
visiting the sanctuary of God. Be kind and courteous to outsiders but beware of
snares.
6. Evil days will come. Be not discouraged; trust in God and do
your duty; although at times you may seem forsaken, all will be well in the end.
7. Make you each a copy of this last advice and read it at least
once a year. I recommend that you have a family reunion once a year, say on
Thanksgiving Day, and read it there in memory of Your Loving Father,
H.F. Mellenbruch
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